STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU, MOSTLY THEY DON'T!

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You probably have heard hurtful words and gossip, spat at you, even from supposed loved ones, your projects and dreams could come to naught, when you envelop yourself with feelings of worthlessness, dispositions like these are multiple and diverse.
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If you identify with such feelings, have you ever stopped to ask yourself if people are really that interested in how and what you eat or drink, and other petty details about your daily life?
 Ok, that might sound a bit exaggerated, but many of us to worry a little too much, oftentimes needlessly! If you think I ain’t really got my facts straight, chew on this:
Is it really worth your time and energy, to be preoccupied about others’ lives when you have yours to live? Trying to understand why people think about us and treat us the way they do, why they don’t like us? Are you really willing to waste such precious amounts of time? That is tantamount to poisoning your mind, which of course, is just not worth it.

Then again, if you choose to think about people, particularly those who hurt you, wouldn’t it be better to view them within perspective, that is, their gifts and limitations? What they give is what their figurative hearts can afford! You are able to feel and absorb the positivity, love, affection and tenderness someone next to you whose heart brims over with such qualities manifest, which only means the reverse is true, when a bitter-minded person interacts with you!
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Forgiving the wrong doer does work wonders! Not only do you prove to be stronger by letting go of bitterness and resentment, you free your heart from bondage. Though oftentimes mistaken for a weakness, forgiveness can only be done by the strong, and only then can real happiness be attained! You deserve that, don’t you?
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Do retain that no matter what you might hear said about you, no matter the negativity you might be forced to rub shoulders with, shun the pain that might result which may eventually make you hate. Set the attainment of internal peace, of mind, as your ultimate objective.
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Remember that what others think of you is not of your business. Guard your beautiful hearts, and lead a beautiful life!
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